It has been more than three months since my open heart surgeries and I am now beginning to reclaim my new life.
My general practitioner has a decent grasp on things (after seeing me so regularly) and mostly agrees with my requests.Sleep eludes me no matter what is prescribed for sleep so I'm looking at having the offending medication changed and I will be resisting starting any new medicines unless the doc can justify it with evidence.
Pain control has been greatly improved since my GP put me on amytriptaline for the nerve pain. My nerves, muscles and tendons are trying to regrow and reconnect which means my chest is supremely sensitive in negative ways. The amytriptaline takes the edge off the pain, resulting in my ability to just get on with life while I am healing.
I was chuffed to discover that Suzi Quatro turned 72 this month and plays the same Fender bass as I do. Such good company.
Along with progress in bass playing you can find me back in my garden mowing, trimming, weeding, raking. Yes folks, last week I managed to mow both my lawns and do the edges all by myself. It took longer than it used to but I am being cautious, listening to my body and not pushing things, other than mowers, about.
Yesterday I got to exercise my democratic rights. I went to the Alliance Française to vote in France's legislative elections, from New
Zealand. I was too busy recovering from surgery to take part in the
presidential elections a few months ago so I was determined not to miss
out this time. I have dual
nationality and was voting for who would represent French expats around the world, I consider it a real privilege of my citizenship to be
able to vote in French elections for the rest of my life. NZ does not
afford its citizens the same rights. If you are overseas and don't come
back regularly for holidays you lose your right to vote after only 3 years. I never had the
money to come back here when I lived in France so I lost the right to
vote in NZ elections. It should be an automatic right as a citizen but I
find NZ's rules on many things quite draconian and harmful.
I was startled to be contacted by a couple of headhunters recently, looking for someone to do communications work at my local council. I should have been ideal, I redid my CV and was given an interview at the HR agency only to have it cancelled suddenly that day. They said they had now resourced it. Hmm, I smell a rat. Contact with that agency wasn't friendly or competent from their end but I was still disappointed. The usual job application nonsense means you never hear if your candidature is received, if anything positive or negative came of all the time you put in to redoing your CV and writing a unique cover letter. Agencies are as bad as dealing with companies directly. There is one more opportunity possible from a different agency which sounds much more friendly and helpful. We'll see, it's for about a year's duration - a big commitment.
I'm keenly aware that my social life revolves around musical activities which I love and I am most grateful to those musicians who have made the effort to prepare songs with me, perform and support me and be endearing friends. Unfortunately that's not enough and I haven't found a significant other since JC in 2011. I spend most of my days pottering at home and now that I am feeling more energetic I decided I should make one more attempt at finding a special companion. Music will always have an important place in my life but opportunities to play are very infrequent or unreliable in nature so I have decided to look for the best sort of company - someone special through online dating. I've been down this road before as long-time readers will know. I am very aware of the pitfalls and disappointments, the scams, the discourtesies but there is no other alternative. I need to remain optimistic and cautious at the same time. If I don't try I can't succeed in challenges. As the cold weather really settles in I'd love to have more indoor social options to add more richness to my life. Here's hoping I find just that.